hey so, as a man who works with other men, here’s a quick relationship tip: if he doesn’t much like cats, that might be just a personal preference. if he hates cats, if he tells you he hates cats as soon as he hears that you have a cat and love your cat, he’s an asshole. he’s telling on himself.
every guy i’ve ever worked with that makes a point of telling me how much he hates cats as soon as i mention that i have a cat and love my cat, is always someone who is regularly cruel for fun and who laughs in the breakroom about the mean things they do for fun to their girlfriends and children.
I wish I could articulate all the ways this makes sense and why it makes sense and stuff but it’s just like… something something misogyny something something resentment of creatures that don’t need you and don’t hang on your attention and approval all their lives.
My dad gave me this exact same advice when I was a kid. “Anyone who hates cats is a control freak and an asshole.”
ur favorite e-begging whore here! i’m still looking for a civilian job(i had two interviews!) college had to be put on hold till next spring no date on HRT yet but i have a doctors appointment soon and i’m still doing survival sex work
for those who don’t kno im a black trans disabled sex worker who is trying his best to get shit together if i can just make it till i get a civilian job i’ll be fine and if yall could help me that would be amazing i understand everything is hard for everyone rn so if this isnt ur jam then just scroll past
